The art of being in love, in my personal opinion, goes like this: Whoever the concerned is, and in this case; a girl, you should be aware of what a wonderful favor you’re doing for this girl. For the fortunate one, correct. You give her the feeling of being seen, touched, cared for – and last but not least – admired.
It’s understandable how one can get frustrated by the certainty of not getting a conversely feeling that, in this case, pretty sure should not be part of the problem, in spite love affairs at our age. And this is where we all, presumably, start thinking about if there’s a lack of excitement in our personalities. But, please, do not think this way. Never underestimate human’s gorgeous, sweet and loving ability to express their love and admiration for one particular person. If there’s a lack of anything at all, there’s a lack of interest with this person being liked, or admired, for that matter. And it’s hard to say where this interest, as needed in a healthy love relationship, comes from. Is it a phenomenon? – I honestly don’t know. Some people say it’s all about «love at first sight». I disagree. Not that it has anything to do with the main topic here.
Nonetheless, what I certainly do know is that I’m thankful for every person appearing in my daily life – desirous to spend their time with me. I count it as worthy use of my time, - being thankful. Showing respect for the guy’s feelings, I also do. That sure feels good inside, anyhow, and at that moment, someone gives me the sweetest gift.
Thank you. A lot.